When our loved ones moved to the other side we begin to grief. It would be so traumatising that we begin to hate ourselves and keep asking why it has to be this way. But then on the other side it seems that our loved ones do not go through the physical or emotional pain as they are back to their home. If we look into the many reported cases of near death experiences it seems what said to be true. Anyway while going through the pain of missing our son all these reported evidences help me and my wife to believe our son is always around us and that we will be with him again. We also believe that it could help others who are in a similar situation like us.
In the book “Evidence of After LIfe” Jeffrey Long, M.D. with Paul Perry have seem to prove that we continue living after leaving the earth. One of the evidence is based on Near Death Experience encountered by many people. Here is one of the reported case.
In 1963 this young man lost control of his car and collided with a brick wall. His injuries were severe enough to fracture his face and sinus cavities and to break his jaw. Badly hurt, he sat on wet grass near the destroyed vehicle and then drifted into unconsciousness. As you read this, note the calmness with which he describes his experience as well as the presence of a very powerful out-of-body experience that seemed to indicate to him that all would be well in his life despite this near-fatal accident. Here’s his story:
I was in a severe automobile accident several ‘Years ago. The steering wheel smashed my face. The accident happened in a rainstorm, and I ran off the road and hit a brick wall.
For a while after the crash I felt nothing, and then the pain started to burn in my face. I got out of the car and lay down, hoping it would make me feel better, but it didn’t. Finally I just blacked out. When I awoke, I couldn’t see anything because my face was covered, but I could tell I was in a hospital from the sounds and the fact that I was on some kind of bed.
I don’t know how long it was, but I had the distinct sensation that I was floating out of my body. I saw my parents, who were there at the bedside, and could feel their emotional pain. It was strange. I should have been in pain but wasn’t. Instead I was standing next to my parents trying to console them as they looked at their darling son, whom they had just been told was going to die. It was horrific, but there was nothing I could do about it. I stood next to my mother and tried to get her attention, but I couldn’t because she didn’t know I was there. I looked at my own body but interested in what I was seeing. I actually felt like a fly the wall.
Something my mind finally clicked us I realized that they would eventually discover that I was not in pain, whether it was here on earth or not. At that point my empathetic pain went away and I focused on my experience. I remember thinking “So this is what death is about, ” as I rose further out of my body.
A Iight came into view and became larger and brighter as t drew closer, I knew this was It, the end of my life, and I wasn’t afraid. But as I drew near, a voice shouted at me to stop. And I mean shouted. “No, not yet!” the voice said.
When that happened I felt myself return very hard into my body. I gasped very loudly, but I knew I was going to survive after that. When they say it’s not your time, it’s not your time.